A bit soulful this Friday morning, looking back on a life of poor decisions, or which I have made a great many.
Nelly, see it this way.
You’ve never made a bad decision in your life.
You’ve simply made the only decisions you knew how to make at that time.
If you could have made a different decision, you would have made a different decision.
But you didn’t. And you couldn’t.
We all have a big bag of awareness and understanding. All the things we’ve learnt and copied. All the conditioning and programming our environment has provided us with over the course of our life.
You can only make decisions based on what’s in your bag.
If you want to expand your bag, then read books, listen wisely, challenge your own belief system, be more compassionate, talk, travel, speak to people you wouldn’t normally speak to, try something new etc etc.
But ultimately, up until this moment right now, nothing could have happened any differently to how it has happened….otherwise it would have.
So dump all your regrets in the bin.
And make peace with your current circumstances.
Happiness is always in the now.
It never exists in the future, as there no such thing as your future…it’s purely a construct of your imagination.
You’ll always be in the now (even in the future).