I completely get your frustration.
I guess the reason why I'm not as unhappy with the result is... I expected nothing. We played well and just lost out. I expected a massacre and we almost won it.
In comparison to Exeter final, I was really upset. I thought we were on a path like the mission from god quotes of the Blues Brothers. And when we lost I was distraught. (Also because it was the second one, but mainly because I thought we'd do it)
In addition, we're already on a depressing run of form, the only thing we can do is support the lads and hope they use it to improve. They're really not far off beating good teams like that.